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Guidelines to Building A Healthy Relationship:

The following guidelines will help ensure a healthy relationship in any aspect of your life.

Love yourself before getting involved in a relationship with another person.

  • Value yourself and know yourself.
  • Know that you are lovable and capable.
  • Be responsible for yourself.

Be honest with yourself and others. Express your feelings openly and truthfully.

  • Communicate your needs.
  • Admit when you're wrong.
  • Sometimes agree to disagree.

Maintain the freedom to be yourself.

  • Have your own ideas, interest, goals and friendships.

Be respectful.

  • Value each other as friends and as individuals.
  • Listen non-judgmentally.
  • Be emotionally affirmative and understanding.

Be willing to trust and be trustworthy.

  • Feel secure about your feelings for each other without jealousy or possessiveness.
  • Be reliable.
  • Share mutual goals.

Negotiate with each other on areas of disagreement.

  • Mutually agree on fair distribution of responsibility.
  • Accept change.
  • Compromise.
  • Work together to resolve conflict.

Take your time in getting to know someone.

  • Know your partner's family background.

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